I turned 38. It’s a number that feels neither too young nor too old, but just right. As I reflect on my journey, I realize how much I’ve learned—about love, courage, motherhood, and the power of positivity. Life has been a beautiful, messy adventure, and I want to share 38 lessons I’ve gathered along the way.

To celebrate my birthday, I indulged in an incredible night in Las Vegas. I stayed in a suite at the Cosmopolitan, enjoyed a delicious dinner at Tao Bistro, and ended the night dancing with friends. Living in Vegas is truly an adventure—there are endless options, from exploring nature, and embracing suburbia, to enjoying world-class entertainment.

With that said, this birthday has been a time of reflection. So here are the 38 things I've learned within 38 years around the sun.

1. Love yourself first. It’s the foundation for everything else.

2. It’s okay to say no. Boundaries are necessary.

3. Celebrate small wins. They pave the way to big victories.

4. Motherhood is humbling. Just when you think you’ve got it figured out, you don’t.

5. Comparison is the thief of joy. Stay in your lane and own it.

6. Forgive freely. Holding onto grudges only weighs you down.

7. Be brave and bold. Dream big and take action.

8. Invest in relationships that nourish you. Let go of the ones that don’t.

9. Positivity is a choice. Choose it daily.

10. Self-care is non-negotiable. Take that break.

11. Laughter heals. Even on the toughest days.

12. You don’t have to do it all. Delegation is key.

13. Growth happens outside of your comfort zone. Embrace the discomfort.

14. Vulnerability is strength. It connects us.

15. Mistakes are lessons in disguise. Learn from them.

16. Gratitude changes everything. Focus on what you have.

17. Trust your gut. Your intuition knows more than you think.

18. Let go of perfection. Progress over perfection always.

19. Time is your most valuable asset. Spend it wisely.

20. Find joy in the little things. They add up.

21. Never stop learning. Growth is a lifelong journey.

22. Say what you mean. Communication is everything.

23. Take risks. Life is too short for "what ifs."

24. Be present. The moment you’re in is all that matters.

25. Surround yourself with positive energy. It’s contagious.

26. Health is wealth. Take care of your body and mind.

27. Success looks different for everyone. Define your own.

28. Let yourself rest. Hustle culture isn’t everything.

29. Kindness is powerful. A little goes a long way.

30. Apologize when you're wrong. It’s a sign of strength.

31. Trust the timing of your life. Things unfold as they should.

32. Be unapologetically you. Authenticity is your superpower.

33. Quality over quantity. In friendships, possessions, and experiences.

34. Find your passion and pursue it. It’s never too late.

35. Love evolves. So do relationships.

36. Let go of control. Some things aren’t meant to be micromanaged.

37. Happiness is an inside job. No one else can give it to you.

38. Your journey is uniquely yours. Own it, love it, embrace it.

Here's to 38—full of wisdom, love, and endless possibilities. Cheers to all the lessons yet to come!